Support Groups

Adoption Reunion support groups

Online:  Facebook    “Forget Me Not Family Society~Adoption Circles” Request to join this closed group.

In person:  Our post-adoption support groups are open to adult adoptees, birth/natural/first parents, adoptive parents and those in a supportive role. There is no cost and membership is not required. Confidentiality is key: What’s said in the room, stays in the room.

COVID-19 UPDATE: In-person support groups are currently on hold due to restrictions on gatherings. SOME GROUPS MIGHT HOLD ONLINE MEETINGS. Contact your group leader for more information.

New Westminster Support Group 

  • Effective January 2020: back to the 1st Tuesday of the month:  January 7, February 4, March 3, April 7, May 5, June 2, July 7, August 4, September 1, October 6, November 3, December 1, 2020.
  • New Westminster Public Library, Ash Street Room from 6:30 – 8:30 pm.
  • Contact Nancy Kato  604-777-2920. 


East Fraser Valley Group, Abbotsford, BC

  • 1st Thursday of each month
  • Location: Crossroads Restaurant 1822 Sumas Way, Abbotsford, BC.  (Located on the North side of the highway before you would reach the Spaghetti Factory.)  The restaurant closes at 9 pm. The section we are in is already closed, which makes it a bit more private and quiet.  We currently meet from 6:30-8:30, which could change.  Ask for the table reserved for Marnie. Please let me know how many tables to reserve. 
  • Contact Marnie 1-604-828-9577.

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Other Support Groups  

Other groups do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of FMNFS and are listed for your information only.

Vancouver, BC: The Adoptees Association holds a discussion group for adopted adults monthly.  For more information visit